not again..
***A not so familiar author/friend? emailed me again with some tips about Love life. Sometimes i feel like "What the heck? Of all people.. Why me?" lol.. for those who knew me.. you know what i mean.. I was ready to ignore his message when the topic caught my eye.. "Getting to Know a Man Online"… read on and LEARN! *wink*
Hello again Maria (yeah thats my first name lol),
A while ago I received this e-mail from a
reader asking my advice about a guy she had
met online.
If you’ve ever tried online dating, or met
a man through the internet, I’m sure you can
relate to the frustration of the "disconnect"
between meeting a man in the "real world" and
getting in touch with someone online.
There seems to be a lot of confusion and
hesitation about what "online dating" is…
and how it works.
Lots of women seem to think that there’s
some secret or weird "code" or language going
on… and that to "date" online you have to
get involved in this whole other world.
Guess what - they’re partially right.
Some of the "rules" of finding and meeting
and ATTRACTING a man online are different.
And if you don’t know how it all works, then
you’re going to have a bad time with online
dating - just as you would with anything else
where you don’t know all the "rules".
But the GOOD NEWS is that it’s VERY SIMPLE
to learn about WHAT WORKS to find, attract
and really get to KNOW the right man online…
And it’s very easy, once you learn what works,
to get started right now meeting and connecting
with one (or more) great guys who are out there
online looking for a woman like you.
So… what is the secret to successfully
attracting the right kind of man online and
not just "dating"… but finding something real?
Read on and find out.
>>>Email From A Reader
Dear Christian-
I have bought and read your e-book, and even
after trying to apply as many of the principles
in it, I find myself struggling so much with
it because I haven’t got the guy I am dealing
with face to face.
I met him online (where a lot of people meet
these days) so a large part of the attraction
and initial correspondence etc is done via
telephone/emails.
I try to use your techniques of playing hard
to get etc but most of your techniques involve
actually having the person in your own town to
actively SEE and DATE. What happens when he’s
in another town, you haven’t met him yet, and
you want to keep him interested….? There’s
nothing in your book about these types of
relationships. Where can I go for this kind
of help? What do you advise here?
Regards,
NJ
Sacramento
>>>My Response:
First of all, I want to make that distinction
here about what "online dating" IS and what it
is NOT.
Online dating is not a great way to start
and build a "relationship".
With a few winks, emails, and phone calls…
there is no relationship YET.
The internet is just a way to MEET and QUALIFY
potentially great guys who share your interests
and passions, so you can then see if there is a
spark for something more after you meet in person.
Do not… I repeat… do not get yourself
"involved" through email and the phone. What I
mean by that is that often people can start to
believe that they have a deeper relationship
(or have even fallen "in love") when online
dating…sometimes BEFORE they have ever
met in person.
It’s a recipe for disaster if you don’t
already know who a man really is, what he’s
really like, and what he’s REALLY looking for.
You can talk and email all you want - but
there is NO REPLACEMENT for what you’ll find
out and learn when you’re physically around
a man.
I can’t tell you how many women make this
mistake of becoming "emotionally involved"
with a man they’ve met online… only to find
out he’s not who they thought he was once they
meet him and get to spend a little time with
him.
Don’t do this to yourself.
Here’s the truth about meeting the right
man online…
Thousands of women have used the internet
to find and connect with the man of their dreams.
Seriously.
I personally know and have met over 20
couples who are now married who met in the last
2-4 years online.
And these are couples of ALL AGES… from
people in their mid to late twenties, to others
in their 50’s and 60’s.
But here’s the other part you need to keep
in mind…
Countless other woman have used online dating
and FAILED - either by not getting any quality
responses, or meeting men who didn’t quite live
up to the "image" the women had built up in their
mind about the man (and getting a nasty surprise
when they met in person).
Even though using the internet to meet and
attract a man is NOT difficult, it does require
an understanding of the right "language" and the
right set of skills and techniques to identify and
attract the right kind of man… and then build
his interest and keep him wanting more.
I’ll talk to you again soon, and best of luck
in Life and Love.
Your Friend,
Christian Carter
***Yeah talk to you again Carter..
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